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Tips for a Very Romantic Getaway in San Francisco

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Author: Greg Mattson, Excellent Romantic Vacations Editor

By: Greg Mattson, ERV Editor - Updated Sep 18, 2021

San Francisco is certainly the most romantic big city on the U.S. West Coast. The Bay, the architecture, landscapes and atmosphere make it a must for romantic travel.

Romantic Getaway in San Francisco - Alamo SquareSwingin' Around Alamo Square with Downtown San Francisco in the Background

Even just a weekend in this Northern California city presents an tantalizing choice of romantic places to eat or have a coffee, cable car rides, wine tasting, excursions over water, or someplace high up to just sip a cocktail and marvel at everything you see.

This is just a brief look at some of the best things to do on a romantic getaway in San Francisco, including a couple of exciting day trips.

12 Romantic Things to Do in San Francisco:

Here We Are Enjoying The Sunshine Overlooking the Bay Area Near San FranciscoAt The Golden Gate View Point Near San Francisco

1. See Fisherman's Wharf: touristy for sure, but spend at least part of the day down here exploring Pier 39 and all the souvenir shops, street vendors and ice cream parlours. If you're staying downtown, getting here can be half the fun (see details of a romantic cable car ride to Fisherman's Wharf below). 

2. Get to the Golden Gate Bridge: the most beautiful bridge in the world? Probably. And no romantic getaway in San Francisco is complete without seeing it at least once! Sometimes the Golden Gate can be totally shrouded in fog, which can add to the experience!

Besides driving across it, you'll want to view it from a good vantage point. We think the best place to see the Golden Gate Bridge is from the Golden Gate National Recreation Area (look for the turn-off on Conzelman Rd ). About an hour before sunset is when it seems to look its best!

3. Take a Chocolate and Wine Walking Tour: take your pick from 4 walking tours of San Francisco (1 of Napa as well) that center on chocolate, wine and San Fran’s “Food Neighbourhoods”. See more of these at Gourmet Walks.com

4. Tour Alcatraz: visit the most famous prison in the world! A short boat ride brings you out to this island-jail. Captivating place that can make you feel, well, maybe not quite "romantic" but...isolated (even though you're only minutes from downtown!) Self-guided tours are available and highly recommended.

5. Stroll Through Chinatown: make you way through the crowded streets of vegetable stands, fish and meat stalls, temples and restaurants. An exciting ethnic experience in one of the most vibrant neighborhoods in America.

6. Sail on a Romantic San Francisco Dinner Cruise: the only thing more romantic than a view of the Bay is to be boating in the Bay! Hornblower Cruises offers both Dinner Dance Cruises and a Champagne Brunch cruise. Looking for a romantic wedding idea on San Francisco Bay? Their elopement package is priced starting at $450 (2013 prices).

7. Trade Kisses on the Grass beside Cupid’s Span: finding this 100 + ft bow-and-arrow sculpture on the scenic Embarcadero is half the fun! (Embarcadaro between Folsom & Howard Streets)

8. Take a Steep Walk Down Lombard Street: "The World's Crookedest Street"! Don't miss the chance to drive (and walk) this crazy, curvy lane between Hyde St. and Leavenworth St. It's an impossibly bent-out-of-shape residential lane that's also of the steepest in the world. One of the fun things to do in San Francisco! (Between 1000 - 1099 Lombard St, San Francisco, CA)

9. Explore More Great Streets: Filmore Street for local shops and eateries, the colourful Latino neighbourhood on Mission Street (between 16th and 24 St), and the shopper's paradise around Union Square.

San Francisco - Alamo SquareView of Downtown San Francisco from Alamo Square

10. Sit on the Grass at Alamo Square: this is the photo you always see of the colorful Victorian row houses, with the city peeking out behind. Put yourself in the picture, and get someone (or the camera's self-timer) to snap this great souvenir of your romantic getaway in San Francisco.(Fulton & Steiner Streets, San Francisco, CA)

11. Go for Drinks at the Fairmont Hotel Lounge: the Crown Room at this luxury Nob Hill hotel is a choice spot for a late night glass of wine with a splendid 23rd-floor view of San Francisco's twinkling lights. (950 Mason St, San Francisco, CA)

12. Celebrate a Romantic Anniversary in San Francisco: why not book a night or 2 in a romantic hotel? Better yet, make it a hotel in San Francisco with a private in-room hot tub suite. One of the best is the Argonaut hotel - see our video of one of their romantic spa tub suites here.    

Romantic Nights in the Bay Area

  • San Francisco's Romance Hotels on Sale - see deals and compare the best rates on some of the Bay area's favorite places to stay for romantic weekends! Suites at Fisherman's Wharf, The Donatello, and the Chancellor Hotel on Union Square.
  • The Inn Above Tide - a great little romantic Sausalito B&B right on the waterfront with a spectacular view of San Francisco Bay.

More Romantic Places in San Francisco

Some of the most romantic places in San Francisco are ones you find on your own - a view from a hill, a nice spot down by the water, or in one of the cities great dining establishments. Here's a few more:

San Francisco SkylineView of the San Francisco Skyline
  • Golden Gate Park: even if you've only got a couple days for your romantic getaway in San Francisco, head down to this lovely place, one of the finest city parks anywhere. Over 1000 acres of rose gardens, lakes and green space framing the magnificent Golden Gate. And the Bridge is right there if you decide you'd like to walk or cycle across.
  • Best Place to Watch the Sunset in San Francisco: Twin Peaks has fabulous 360 deg panoramic views of San Francisco and the Bay area. Another fine spot for romantic evenings in San Francisco is the sunset from Coit Tower on Telegraph Hill.
  • North Beach - historic, a little bit gritty, but great views of the city can provide the romance you seek. Mid-mornings are a good time to explore this district of cafes, one-of-a-kind shops and Italian eateries.
  • Crissy Field: part of Presidio National Park, great for walking along the waves and enjoying the views of the ocean, the boats, the Golden Gate Bridge, and Marin County.


A Fun Frisco Cable Car Ride for 2

Cable Car Ride in San Francisco on the Powell - Hyde LineA Sunny Day on a San Francisco Cable Car Ride down the Powell - Hyde Line

Don't miss the chance to hang on to the poles of one of the cities Cable cars as it clatters up and down the streets (this will put you right back into every Streets of San Francisco episode or Rice-a-Roni commercial you ever saw!).

One of the best and most scenic rides on a San Francisco cable car is the Powell-Hyde Line which you can board downtown just below Union Square. You get a totally unique and awesome view of San Francisco, ride right past Lombard Street, and end up at the western edge of Fisherman's Wharf.

Great San Francisco Day Trips 

  • Sausalito: Just across the Golden Gate Bridge, you arrive in sunny Sausalito. It's a great afternoon getaway from the city, with nice views across the bay, a very walkable main street with just the right mix of shops, bistros, galleries and cafes. To get to Sausalito, you can get back on that beautiful bridge again on the --- north. Or, may we suggest an even more romantic excursion: the Golden Gate Ferry which chugs across the Bay in about 30 minutes.
  • Napa Valley: A perfect day trip from the city, and a romantic destination all it's own. The Napa and Sonoma Valleys are full of excellent restaurants, romantic hotels and inns, spas, gorgeous scenery, and of course, some of the best wine in the world.

Getting to San Francisco

Arriving by air, you'll most likely begin your romantic getaway in San Francisco in one of 3 major airports in the Bay Area:

  • San Francisco International Airport
  • Oakland International Airport
  • San Jose International Airport

Most international flights use San Francisco International (SFO). More and more low-fare carriers are using Oakland and San Jose.

Getting around San Francisco presents the usual challenges common to any big US city. The BART system (Bay Area Rapid Transit) works well and connects SFO with downtown San Francisco and Oakland.

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